Showing posts with label be prepared. Show all posts
Showing posts with label be prepared. Show all posts

28 February 2013

Expect the unexpected: exam-style

‘Expect the unexpected.’ Well, we’re not going to just walk around expecting a giant piano to fall on our heads or other extremely unlikely events to occur, but this is decent advice for exams; or at least ‘be prepared for the unexpected’ is. I was hit with some unexpected situations in high school exams. In our year nine English midcourse, the teacher setting the Romeo and Juliet section used an online quiz, which a friend and I had both used to revise leading up to the exam. In my French Continuers speaking HSC, we spent a few minutes discussing driving – which I hadn’t expected. My initial shock was no doubt evident.
 
In general, questions for the French Continuers speaking exam were rather strange. One person in my class was asked about the difference between France and Switzerland, and then asked about the difference between French people and Swiss people when he said that he hadn’t spent enough time in Switzerland (a day a year prior) to really know. Another guy, who was also studying Japanese, was asked the difference between France and Japan. One of the questions that we all did as practice, though I don’t believe that any of us were asked, was “What makes a good friend?” (One weird variation of it that we were asked was “Are you a good friend?”, which was really awkward and I just wanted to answer it with “Je ne sais pas, vous devez demander cette question à mes amis”.) (I don’t know, you should ask this question to my friends).
 
There was no way for me to know that I was going to spend a fifth of my exam talking about driving, or for Tom to know that mentioning that he’d visited Switzerland would open him up to questions on that front, or for our other classmates to know to expect the other questions they were asked. But I, and while I can’t speak for them probably they too, could have been better prepared by expecting a question that I might not be ready for, by having told myself to keep calm and pause to think rather than to start immediately and then to stumble a little over the sentence. So I guess the point of this, for you and for me as a new uni student, is to prepare like crazy (while sleeping well leading up to it, of course; I value sleep over extra last minute refreshing) but to go into tests expecting to face a question that will floor you and to have to work through it so that on the tests where you do face that question, you can quickly accept it and work on dealing with it rather than spending a minute despairing internally while trying to find a way to get through it. So expect the expected, because a lot of the time what’s expected is what will occur (we know that submerging ourselves in burning water won’t make us feel cool and pleasantly refreshed, after all), but be prepared for the occasional curveball.

29 January 2013

Self-defence

I think it’s a good thing to be prepared for not necessarily the worst but at least a dangerous situation. I went to France as a school trip a year ago and we planned on Dad teaching my friend and me basic self-defence before we left in case anything happened. That didn’t eventuate, but I have started using the punching bag regularly over the last few days (partially because it's fun and, out of my holiday exercise regime, the easiest thing to commit to doing - seriously, we bought a Wii and Zumba ages ago and I only feel comfortable using it if I'm alone or if only my brother is home, because he tried it out once and knows how awkward it would be to do with others - and partially because if I'm ever assaulted I want to be able to punch without breaking my thumb) and my brother has retaught me the correct way to punch. People don’t all need to know different moves and have practice sparring etc if that doesn’t interest them, but I think it’s important to at least know how to punch, places to aim and other basic knowledge in case something does happen. For example, if you’re being put in a headlock you should drop your chin to your chest so that the person can’t get their arm to your neck and strangle you. The armpit area is really sensitive and pinching there is extremely effective, while not long lasting. You need to be aware of the positioning of your thumb, and whether you’re going to roll your wrist, when punching to make sure that nothing gets broken. Things like that, little tricks that won’t necessarily win you a fight or immediately get you away from a bad situation but might give you the opportunity to distract the assailant for a few seconds or get out of their grip or at least delay you being strangled, could be the thing that allows you to last until you can get help or that minimises your injuries.